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It's okay if she's not a virgin before marriage

  • Samiksha Gupta
  • Apr 12, 2017
  • 2 min read

For quite a while, there has been a misapprehension that sex is a wrong thing to do and is

prohibited. In any case it is not the reality. Sex is critical for our physical well being. Many societies stillregard women's virginity as a fortune to be preserved. But, times are changing and sex is no

longer a taboo. Nowadays couples wouldn't fret engaging in sexual relations before marriage. It is not even an issue any more, regardless of the possibility that they realize their relationship

won't last and won't transform into marriage.

However, even at the time of marriage, ladies with a dynamic sexual life are as yet given unusual

looks and are weirdly addressed. It is all on account of our customary qualities which are

ingrained within us. Ladies who have intercourse before marriage are thought to be intense and

somebody who has no regard for her family. This is the motivation behind why young ladies are

rejected on the grounds that individuals believe that the young lady will proceed with this

conduct even after marriage.

There are numerous customs that still exist in our society with an exceptionally

intolerant intuition, and as such, regularly tend to impact the choices in regards to marriage. Yet, times are

evolving now. India has experienced a dynamic change and individuals have more open points of view. A larger part of individuals don't think of sex as extremely sacrosanct and something that shouldn't be uncovered.

Men don't anticipate that their partners will be virgins any longer as these days Indian ladies

are working, independent and have the opportunity to settle on their own accords. Be that as it may,

ladies from smaller cities and customary families still face extraordinary pressure and face a

considerable measure of troubles in light of the fact that their virginity, which is a major big deal

with regards to their marriage. They are required to be "sanskari".

Figure 1. Geoffrey Golden, (2013), purity-ring-mouth [Photograph]. Available at: http://cdn1-www.craveonline.com/assets/uploads/2013/05/purity-ring-mouth-320x180.jpg [Accessed 3 April 2017].


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